Like with everything I say, this applies to life - and maybe business too - actually YES, business too (if you're good with girls naturally then money will FLOW to you) ...
But breakups.
We have all been there.
I mean, even natural G's like me with counts of over 440 and no, most of them are NOT hos. Most have actually paid me money NOT for sex but for other things. Its called being that guy naturally.
I've also told guys never get married. It's a death knoll for men, simple. The minute she signs that death warrant (I call marriage certificates that because thats basically what it is for MEN) she wants you to cuck, be a human ATM and lose every quality that made you sexually desirable to her in the first place. And boom. There you go down the hole. Most men never even realize, let alone RECOVER.
Anyway.
I'm by NO MEANS a fan of the red pill stuff - some of it is good, but the talk about "dont think about women at all?"
What, are you gay. lol.
These guys obsess about women all the time yet dont admit it.
Guys like me that dont even call themselves alpha but everyone else does - personally despite NOT being into classifications, all gay, we are all shades of grey - - pun intended as well - - I think I'm more sigma than anything. Thats what my customers call me too.
I get results. They dont, and then wistfully say "I wish some girl would message me out of the blue offering blowjobs!"
Well, she would if youre "that guy".
Most aren't. Has nothing to do with money either as I keep saying. Thats just an amplifier either way, loser dom - or real natural G.
I say this - flirt, sleep with women, do what you like, grab them by the arm if the situation is right, do exactly as you please, just dont marry. Pursue them but dont get ATTACHED is what I say.
Easier said than done.
But once done they will feel that.
Funnily enough they THEN flock to you on auto pilot like they do me.
It's a simple game. Who needs it more. Ultimately with a real G, again, money has nothing to do with this - THEY NEED IT MORE.
Therefore ...
To inculcate this mentality you must first understand the concepts of abundance which applies to everything in the Universe.
It's simple.
She aint special.
Women are all the same bro.
All money hungry and so they should be ... its the man's job to provide in SOME regard. Could be being interesting - more so than all other men out there she knows, or in better shape, or something, but you gotta have SOMETHING to give her.
That simple.
When you understand the concepts of abundance, things FLOW once you take INSPIRED, not necessarily ALWAYS, but sometimes, thought out action.
In the flow is indeed a thing and works so well with women, but back to breakups?
Even I've experienced them.
Like with Carol.
I still remember that intense emotion I felt.
It destroyed even me for let alone days but weeks.
I couldn't even sit still or talk to OTHER GIRLS OFFERING THEMSELVES to me at the time!
Everything was her, her, her.
Yes, I tried my best to keep her despite BOTH of us agreeing to break up ... despite her tears (women only shed crocodile tears ultimately) (in her case it was of course the fact I already had daughters and so did she that really did it) ...
Not so much the "you're married, I feel guilty" nonsense she kept spouting before blowing me without me asking.
Women dont give 2 shits about that when they see something THEY WANT. They will move HEAVEN and Earth to get it, all else be damned, other women especially.
But ultimately breakups?
Look, as a man, cardinal rule numero uno is to focus on yourself first and FOREMOST.
Thats how you take care of the girls and everyone else.
Girls will tell you "think about us first".
But if you do, then you're not following that cardinal rule.
You will never be an effective provider in any regard.
You gotta put yourself first. Simple. Thats NOT the bad thing its made out to be! Its an excellent thing. The women FOLLOW. Because you're that guy FIRST.
Breakup wise, that breakup in hindsight was the best thing that happened to me.
My evolution to Bodyweight Exercise Guru really started THEN.
I had to do SOMETHING.
Now note I already exercised. But, as Carol giggled about once, I was still a bit chubby as she was "plump" as she giggled :"maybe we can lose weight together" (started our climbs together) - and couldn't pass between two closely parked cars. Hehe. I keep joking about that!
But nowhere near what I then upped it to. I couldn't sit still, I had to do something to remove her from my mind.
Oddly enough I got new job opporutinities out of the blue once I did it. More GIRLS.
And slowly, she became just a beautiful memory.
Now, I never get emotionally attached these days but if I do, takes me a sum total of half a day to FORGET her completely. Never "into" her, so why would I waste time getting over her?
in fact its better not to have her.
I can TRAIN MORE!
I can WORK MORE!
As a man and WARRIOR thats all that counts!!
THIS IS THE REAL indicator of being a true G. You are madly in 'love' - whatever the hell that is - one minute.
Then shit hits the fan, it was always slated to end, Bourne style "then it fell apart".
And you simply forget her like she meant nothing WHILE keeping the emotion of those memories alive in your mind forever, and no this isn't easy to do ...
Experience makes it easier, as with everything.
That intense emotion you feel?
Rage?
Anger?
Make sure it never happens to you.
DO SOMETHING.
Exercise done right is the easiest way.
WORK MORE. Make more money. STAY occupied else she'll never leave your mind ...
And thats the REAL red pill you should be focusing on, not the garbage out there.
SHE DOESNT MATTER.
Women are all the same. Period.
Plenty of fish in the ocean ...
And thats that.
The 0 Excuses Fitness System for those interested.
Advanced Hill Training as well.
Best,
Rahul Mookerjee
PS - Carol was right about almost everything except ... getting divorced. Now there aint nothing wrong with that but if she wont give it?
Who cares.
Just do what you gotta openly, let her STEW. Simple. If she isn't willing to let go, thats on her, not you.
This doesnt mean completely abandon her.
It just means move on with your life as a MAN. Simple. Dont let imaginary chains bog you down!
Carol was like, ultimately this will be a problem for everyone.
She's right if I choose to get married, yes, although even there I can have two wives. I doubt China even cares if you're married elsewhere. Islam allows multiple wives. Plenty of ways around anything friend.
But not everyone.
It aint no problem for my maids. They could give 2 shits less so long as the ex isn't in front of them ...
And ultimately as a man, thats all you want from a woman, nurturing.
interesting how every other "higher status" woman around here calls my wife, supposedly by dint of marriage to ME (guess another reason she wont leave lol) is also high society now ...
"Just like a housemaid".
And that says it all. More later. Enjoy!
