Every successful person has it. Artist, entrepreneur, movie star - you name it - sportsperson - without a very vivid hyperactive IMAGINATION they would be nowhere today because the PASSION would never have taken root.
In Red Dragon, another very underappreciated Lecter classic, one even Anthony Hopkins himself claims was a mistake (not sure why) ... Graham, the guy that catches Will has it. The X factor, like Hannibal does. Of course Hannibal ALLOWED himself to get overconfidence and get caught because he had full confidence he would eventually escape even if caught, and the GAME was too exciting - I get it, I'm the same ...
When Graham goes to visit him for advice, he tells him "we're very similar, Will. Dont you get it? That's how you CAUGHT me. Without our imagination, we'd be like the rest of those DULLARDS out there". And more, but I wont go into the actual story here.
That is what most people are - dullards.
Dumbphones have made it worse. True, my email signature is "Sent from my dumbphones which might be smarter than it looks - hehe" (a derivative of this which has been received very well - I get responses like "your phone is obviously smarter than it looks (and so am I, hehe, and I look very smart anyway and am) and your emails are always a pleasure to read) ...
But in general - people are always on social, videos etc. They watch things out of cope to "relax and forget their daily lives" (which never get any better). Extends to life, women, sexuality, all of it.
But they don't IMAGINE themselves doing what they WANT.
This is the key. While it was Dr Lecter who made a derivate of the email title on this one in Red Dragon - and he was right, Henry Kaiser, great American shipbuilder and industrialist once made similar comments "imagination is everything".
You have to SEE it happen, FEEL yourself there.
I was watching videos of Alaska today, remote communities, and it got me doing research for hours. I've never lived there, and I'd love to. No feet on display though! Hehe.
But I pictured myself vividly there, what I'd be doing, in the middle of a huge nasty city where I am right now, the rivers were flowing, the bears were nearby, I was planning for winter supplies, stocking up, and so forth. Also known as visualization.
Done right.
Sexually, most of you do visualize.
In fact you gooners visualize a LOT while gooning.
This is the point - you shouldn't be gooning to what you see online. Not only is it fake, but the real thing is always better.
Plus - at and after a certain point, without action, imagination is worthless.
It might even frustrate and backfire on you.
YOU guys have these exact same fantasies about me, and I know it.
But have you taken action? Have you sent? Have you initiated interesting conversation beyond idiotic jerk off statements "what if your feet get dirty walking around in China"?
With girls, I initiate conversation in real life the minute there is an opportunity, classic predator style.
But you DONT.
That is precisely why I get to my goals and you don't.
Rectify this. Also remember, that opportunity only really appears because of the visualization behind it. The FIRST thing you think about in the morning is what is on your MIND. However, how deeply you picture THAT thing and how much it MATTERS to you during the day is what your day BRINGS. Its that simple.
The other thing, COPE.
"I'll never be able to do this" shouldn't even be a thought about intense visualization.
You must be convinced you will.
A lot of you also cope with saying "I just want the fantasy".
No. You want it to play out in real life, or you wouldnt HAVE that fantasy in your head anyway, there is a reason its called fantasy.
Fitness wise, same thing applies.
Months before I ever swung a heavy club, I VISUALIZED it. Every workout, I didnt necessarily get better, but I sure thought of myself as getting better and never thought "this is too difficult", that thought did not even enter my brain to be honest. I SAW myself doing it months before I ever got even CLOSE to doing it.
Going to all the different locations I do? I visualized them intensely YEARS before I ever got the "how do I accomplish this" part worked out. Sometimes it takes time, and if you think deeply enough - trust me, the way will appear - as they say, if you want it BAD enough ... you'll FIND a way. That's what this means.
And for now, that's that.
This post has been covered on www.spicyanderoticfetish.com from a sexuality standpoint. Sometimes I wonder why I bother even separating the two, hehe.
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Regards,
Mike Watson
PHD - Remember, picture the goal. Your goals. And see yourself, more importantly, FEEL yourself doing it. And soon enough if you take SOME action after that, not even necessarily goal related, you will! Remember, you don't get one goal, another will appear if you're not a complete moron and it might even be better. But you must imagine FIRST with the right intentions and no LACK. KEY! PUN too haha.
